{"id":1663,"date":"2009-05-01T00:01:58","date_gmt":"2009-05-01T06:01:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blaine.org\/sevenimpossiblethings\/?p=1663"},"modified":"2009-05-01T00:02:09","modified_gmt":"2009-05-01T06:02:09","slug":"poetry-friday-ellen-steinbaum-andloving-the-locked-drawers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/blaine.org\/sevenimpossiblethings\/?p=1663","title":{"rendered":"Poetry Friday: Ellen Steinbaum and<br>Loving the Locked Drawers"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/blaine.org\/jules\/container2.jpg\" border=1>I&#8217;ve been reading <em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ellensteinbaum.com\/container_gardening.html\"><strong>Container Gardening<\/strong><\/a><\/em>, the latest collection of poetry from journalist, poet, and playwright <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ellensteinbaum.com\/\"><strong>Ellen Steinbaum<\/strong><\/a> (published last year by <a href=\"http:\/\/custom-words.com\/\"><strong>CustomWords<\/strong><\/a>). Ellen also, until very recently and for almost a decade, was a columnist for the <em>Boston Globe<\/em>, writing at &#8220;City Type,&#8221; conversations with Boston-area writers and poets. (Those columns are archived, for those interested, at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ellensteinbaum.com\/\"><strong>her site<\/strong><\/a>.)<\/p>\n<p>Ellen&#8217;s poetry is new to me, but I ripped right through this collection and I&#8217;m even currently re-reading it. I find many of these poems&#8212;whose themes often swirl around life&#8217;s most perplexing elements, memory, the rush of time, loss, and hope&#8212;to be moving. At her site, she writes, <em>&#8220;I think of my new book,<\/em> Container Gardening, <em>as a collection of poems about what is perishable, what endures, and what makes us who we are. After my first book, <\/em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ellensteinbaum.com\/afterwords.html\"><strong>Afterwords<\/strong><\/a> {pictured below}, <em>which dealt very specifically with loss, these speak of how we pick up the pieces and go on to create the private and public worlds we inhabit.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/blaine.org\/jules\/afterwords.jpg\" border=1>I asked Ellen if I could post two of her poems in their entirety today, and then I pushed my luck&#8212;since I found it difficult to choose favorites&#8212;and asked for three. Fortunately, she gave me the green light. These three poems, particularly the first two, struck me with their sharply-observed and inherent reverence for the mysteries of our emotional lives &#8212; yet Ellen pulls it all off without insufferable navel-gazing and just the right balance of introspection and acceptance. Rilke once (famously) <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sfgoth.com\/~immanis\/rilke\/letter4.html\"><strong>instructed someone<\/strong><\/a> to &#8220;try to love the questions themselves as if they were locked rooms or books written in a very foreign language.&#8221; I think Ellen echoes the same here in these poems I&#8217;m sharing today. <\/p>\n<p>And I think the final poem, &#8220;One Photograph,&#8221; fits snugly with these other two, what with the longing and searching at its center, but I also want to share it now, since we are edging up to Mother&#8217;s Day. I couldn&#8217;t help but think of my own mother in &#8220;One Photograph,&#8221; and it got me. Got me good. From one poet&#8217;s experience to paper to a random reader like me, getting all verklempt: We take it for granted all the time, but isn&#8217;t it all simply splendid? <\/p>\n<p>Thanks to Ellen for letting me share. I&#8217;m not going to ask folks to share their one &#8220;Question&#8221; (see the second poem below) today, as that&#8217;s way too private and, for many, might be painful. But if anyone wants to share in the comments their &#8220;favorite bauble&#8221; (see the first poem)&#8212;if it&#8217;s one not too terribly private for you&#8212;you&#8217;d pretty much make my day. <\/p>\n<p>My favorite bauble, or bauble<em>s<\/em>, in my case: When my daughters each (separately, of course) came out of my body and into this world and were handed to me. <\/p>\n<blockquote><p>The Time Emporium<\/p>\n<p>And which was your favorite<br \/>\nbauble&#8212;the perfect summer evening,<br \/>\nsky just darkening amethyst,<br \/>\na scattering of fireflies for props?<br \/>\nOr maybe the birthday<br \/>\nwhen you were six, everyone<br \/>\nclose around you singing, you<br \/>\nfeeling beloved and fortunate?<br \/>\nThe child&#8217;s birth, first heart-stopping<br \/>\nsmile, cheeks pink and damp from<br \/>\nsleep? The love, the passion,<br \/>\nintimate exchange, secret look in<br \/>\nthe offhand moment? What was<br \/>\nthat instant when you soared beyond<br \/>\nyour skin, felt your benevolent soul<br \/>\nstretch outward? Which trinket catches<br \/>\nlight, which jewel is bright with fire?<br \/>\nWhich, looking back, would you never<br \/>\nexchange for what was coming next?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/blaine.org\/jules\/ellen.jpg\" border=2><br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/blaine.org\/jules\/onephotograph.jpg\" border=2><\/p>\n<p>More poems from <em>Container Gardening<\/em> are <a href=\"http:\/\/www.custom-words.com\/steinbaum_poems.html\"><strong>here<\/strong><\/a> at CustomWords&#8217; site. <\/p>\n<p>The Poetry Friday round-up today is being hosted by Maya Ganesan over at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mayaganesan.blogspot.com\/\"><em><strong>allegro<\/strong><\/em><\/a>. <\/p>\n<p><center>* * * * * * * <\/center><\/p>\n<p>CONTAINER GARDENING \u00a9 2008 Ellen Steinbaum. Published by CustomWords, Cincinatti, Ohio. Poems posted here with permission of Steinbaum. All rights reserved. <\/p>\n<p>The cover art for <em>Container Gardening<\/em> was painted by <a href=\"http:\/\/www.berkshireartist.com\/\"><strong>Faith Hochberg<\/strong><\/a>. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been reading Container Gardening, the latest collection of poetry from journalist, poet, and playwright Ellen Steinbaum (published last year by CustomWords). Ellen also, until very recently and for almost a decade, was a columnist for the Boston Globe, writing at &#8220;City Type,&#8221; conversations with Boston-area writers and poets. 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